FIGHT THE SHAME, NOT HER BRAIN.™

YOUR DAUGHTER IS LIKELY HIDING SOMETHING FROM YOU

Beneath the surface of your daughter’s confusing behavior is a mass of shame. It is the hardened accumulation of stink eyes and the 10x more criticism she receives EVERY. SINGLE. DAY!  Even more, she’s wired to be especially shame sensitive, transforming shame into toxic, debilitating shame. And, she is likely trying to hide this from you because she feels ashamed about feeling shame.  But, she needs your help. 

FIGHT THE SHAME TO ACCESS HER BRAIN™

A neurodivergent girl needs a different parenting approach designed just for her. She needs us to fight the shame so she can access her brain!

Shame holds the brain hostage making her strengths inaccessible to her. Shame is also at the root of some of her most unexpected behavior, confusing both you and her. Real change comes when she is empowered to spot and vaporize sneaky shame as it comes at her, clearing the way for her to learn to LOVE THAT BRAIN™ and herself so she can thrive.  

It seems like busting shame should be simple, but it isn’t. Because shame is tricky. Most of us have never been taught HOW to disarm shame. And, most of us get uncomfortable even thinking about the idea of shame. Even more, neurotypical shame busting strategies usually malfunction for our neuro-girls. And so, in our confusion, we often unintentionally harm our daughters when we are trying to help. 

COMMON, WELL-MEANING PARENTING STRATEGIES THAT ACCIDENTALLY LEAD TO MORE SHAME, NOT LESS 

• Telling her she has superpowers

• Trying to fix her brain to fit in 

• Telling her not to feel ashamed

• Telling her it is an isolated event

• Telling her to have more faith

• Telling her to hide that part of herself

• Telling her she is making it a big deal

But, there is an effective way to bust shame so her brain can function at its optimal level and she can thrive.  And, I can show you how, in step-by-step, actionable, effective ways.     

A NEURO-GIRL EMPOWERED TO BUST SHAME LEARNS TO LOVE HER BRAIN & THRIVE 

She begins melting that hardened mass that was years in the making. And she begins softening toward you because she trusts that you get it now. You are on her side and will help her fight the shame and not her brain. And, once she trusts you on this, everything else starts changing. Because something stuck has been released.

The power struggles become more manageable, the outbursts less intense and more understandable, her connection to you palpable. And your sense of being a capable parent is restored. Because you get it. Because you’ve got the nerve to protect her in the face of constant stink eyes. You just need the tools. And, I can help you with that.